17 and just found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant today , the Dad is distraught and not wanting to tell his family and I’ve always been told if I get pregnant I’ll be kicked out of my home . I’m absolutely terrified of how my life is going to change and being alone , I will be 18 when I have the baby but does anyone have advice ?
Hi lovely, sounds like you’re in a tough situation, I’m sorry to hear that 😞 it’s a good idea to be honest with your family as they will find out eventually anyway, they gave you a hypothetical situation before and may react differently now it’s actually happened. Tell your midwife your situation and they will be able to tell you what support is…[Read more]
Hey I’m 19 too and I have a 4 month old little girl, it can be hard telling the family but they will be fine eventually and as for your life changing it will dramatically you have responsibility you never had before but having a baby makes you grow up n for me it was the best thing that happened to me. Tell your family sooner rather than later ( s…[Read more]
Hi I’ve just joined as I wanted to talk to some people who will hopefully understand. I am 18 and I have a 10 month old daughter who I love with all my heart, I live with my partner and I’m really struggling with keeping my house together which I know sounds small but it is causing so many problems between us and I just don’t feel like I’m being…[Read more]
Hey @bryony-ingram, I know exactly how you feel. After I had my son, he just wanted to feed all the time and I felt like I had to get everything in the house done and I felt awful about myself. Even now he’s older and can entertain himself, I still don’t get much done tbh. I tidy downstairs and do little jobs while his daddy is giving him a bath…[Read more]